In the pursuit of ‘Maturity’ for 2017, one of the first places to start is maturing the thought processes – maturing the mind, the beliefs.
Why is this important?
Beliefs Drive Behaviors
When companies bring us in to start the culture shift, our conversation turns to:
“Build them:
- from What?”
- into What?”
Often, the conversation turns to the need to have leaders at every level that embrace the ownership mindset (as opposed to the passive or victim mindset).
There are many reasons for an organization to have a passive, victim mindset but we will save that blog for another day!
As we start to initiate change, here’s my secret sauce: We start having development sessions and discussions that lead to permission and application. HOWEVER, I have a disclaimer:
The workforce uses what we teach as a lens to judge the quality of leaders within the organization.
The process can expose poor leadership by teaching excellence. If titled leaders at the various levels aren’t willing and ready to lead in the way we teach, please don’t bring us in – we will only educate your people to hate you!
From an organizational standpoint, what will you let your people own? How are they taught to think? Are they developed, equipped, then empowered? Dumbed down to a mindless drone? Or just tossed in and expected to figure it out as they sink or swim?
Beliefs are built within an environment. Conversations and experiences shape individual beliefs. The individual’s beliefs combine to become the collective, which becomes the culture.
{The podcast for this week is geared to the individual, if you’d like to have a conversation about shifting the organizational mindset, please reach out for a discussion.}
Owning the mindset
Let’s look at the difference between an immature and mature mindset:
Immature
Blames others Victim mindset Passive Passes the buck (abdicate) Success is external (outside my control) It can’t, I can’t, never be, always been, why try? |
Mature Admits their contributing actions Ownership mindset Active The buck stops here (responsible) Success is internal (beliefs, actions, outcomes) I can, we can, let’s do it! Let’s get started. |
If we were studying the game film of our lives, we would start to see our tendencies. A mature mindset, an ownership mindset, asks:
- What were my actions?
- What are my tendencies? (Beliefs? Behaviors?)
Rather than externalize control – let’s work to internalize control. There is always something you can do, some action you can take, to improve the outcome.
If you feel your voice isn’t being heard: Work on increasing your influence.
If you are working for a bad boss: Learn how to lead up and negotiate operating space. Approach an employment lawyer to know how to start confronting adversity with an employer.
If you are under resourced: Find a way (pool resources, offer an internship, do something!)
There may be that voice in your mind right now that is telling you that I don’t understand your situation and that you can’t and here’s the list of 25 reasons why….
Which side of the list above does that fall under?
Can I encourage you to consider the mature, ownership mindset?
Your present is just the starting point. Plug in your desired destination and work with others to map out the moves – the GPS routing – that can find a way to get you where you want to go. It may not happen overnight but the next move can!
You will re-route, there will be twists and turns along the way. It’s OK; It’s all part of the journey
How about a few 1-liners to get you going? I like 1-liners because it helps my mind hold on and they are easy to repeat to counteract unproductive thinking
Nothing is perfect the first time.
Everything worthwhile takes effort and struggle.
If it were easy, everyone would do it!
The struggle is Victory being birthed!
Adversity reveals character.
We make the journey AND The journey makes us.
Mature the mind, OWN your destiny.
Own the Mission, own the mindset, own the methods, make the moves!
For more on this topic, click the mic to check out the full podcast. Have a great week!